This week I am blogging about five lessons I have learned on the journey of starting a new church. I believe these five lessons are ones that every church planter will face no matter what their unique situation is. You can see the introduction and part one here, part two here and part three here.
Today is lesson number four:
4. You must be willing to do the thing you hate most!
I’m a big believer in leading through your strengths. I know what I’m good at, but I equally know what I am very bad at. Being on a leadership team at a church has the advantage that you can lead by your strengths and pass your weaknesses over to someone else. However, I have discovered, when it comes to church planting those things that you absolute hate doing will often pass your direction, and often you are the only one who can tackle them.
I believe as a church planter God often tests our leadership and develops us as leaders. We can have mentors and coaches (which I believe every leader should have), but at the end of the day, I think God just throws us in the deep end and forces us to swim, no matter how much we may hate it!
For me, confrontation was my deep end. I hate confrontation, I’ve always tried to avoid it, and on previous leadership teams I’ve always been able to let those whose strength it was who could create healthy confrontation take on a particular issue. Since stepping out to plant a church I have been thrown in the confrontation deep end so many times it is becoming a regular occurrence. I don’t like it anymore than I did before, I still have the same feelings, I still feel totally out of my depth, but I have realized, I must sometimes do the things I hate most, and I believe every church planter will be thrown into a deep end of the things they hate to do most.
What is the area or thing you hate to do most? Are you willing to tackle that area head on?






